Jun 02

With summer around the corner, I’m reminded of how hectic it is to increase the number of children at home during the day from zero to three. During the summer my children eat from the time they wake up until the final seconds before they brush their teeth at bedtime. My kitchen pays the price—and so does my sanity—when I spend the whole day wearing my chef’s hat. Here is what I did last summer to ease the summer burden a bit:

1.       Place cups, bowls, plates and spoons at an easy-access location. I have a bottom drawer dedicated just to kid-friendly dining wear. I bought fun, brightly colored dishes that I can re-use and replace periodically. I try not to use disposable paper products to save the family budget and the environment.

2.       Stock up on healthy snacks. I fill one bottom drawer in the fridge and one in the pantry with snacks I deem healthy and then I let my kids eat freely (within reason) at snack time. I also keep the fruit bowl full of all of those wonderful seasonal fruits. (Check out this Friday’s blog for a list of healthy snacks for kids.)

3.       Buy a water dispenser and keep it in the fridge. I encourage my children to drink a lot of water so I always keep cold water easily accessible in the fridge. Cold water is more refreshing, tastes better, and tends to be more appealing than regular tap water. I make it easy for little hands to get their own drinks so I don’t hear the repeated plea on hot summer days, “I need a drink!”

I’d rather offer my children some independence this summer so that I spend less time as waitress and cook and more time outdoors having fun at the beach, pool, or park.

Question: What are your tricks for giving your children access to the kitchen within reason?

Jun 01

 

Staying in your pajamas all day, watching endless cartoons, and snuggling up under the covers sounds like the plan for a relaxing day—unless you’re sick. My daughter woke up at 2 a.m. with a stomach ache and vomitting, and that’s how she has spent her day. I have vivid memories of being sick with a stomach bug as a kid – the kind of illness that makes you wish you were at school. You know you’re really sick when you can’t even enjoy all of the laziness that comes with being ill.

Since I’ve had children I have an unusally low tolerance for throwing up. The smallest things make me nauseated and send me running to the bathroom. So it was out of the question that I would stand next to my daughter last night and watch her throw up in the bathroom. Instead, I showed my support by laying in my bed as she gave me a play-by-play rundown.

“Mom, now I’m leaning over the toilet. Now I’m gonna throw up. Now I’m really gonna throw up. Now, I can feel it burning in my chest. Now it’s in my throat. Cough. Gag. Cough. Puke.” Gross. I had to cover my ears with a pillow. Just thinking about it now makes my mouth water and my throat tickle. I was trying to keep my own queasiness at bay last night while still being supportive from underneath my pillow. Eventually she stopped throwing up and I fell asleep. I’m not exactly clear which of those two events happened first, but I’m hoping it wasn’t the latter. At least I know I made up for it by being the good, compassionate nurse all day, doting on her every need.

Question: What do you do to comfort your children when they are feeling under the weather?

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