Apr 30

If you believe the old adage of “You are what you eat,” then why not be super-powered? These 10 foods have been set apart from the rest of the healthy bunch because these “Super Foods” are a triple threat – they fight cancer, heart disease and the belly bulge.

Of course, eating a diverse diet is still the most beneficial way to eat, but incorporating these foods into your diet on a regularly basis is a great way to super-charge your health. (This list is provided by WebMd.com). Each week I will highlight one of these Super Foods with ideas for eating more of it and how to sneak it into your families’ diet too.

Top 10 Multitasking Super Foods

  1. Low fat or fat-free plain yogurt is higher in calcium than some other dairy products and contains a great package of other nutrients, including protein and potassium. It can also be enhanced with other good-for-you substances. “Yogurt is a vehicle food that can be enriched with probiotics for a healthy balance of bacteria in your gut, and beneficial, heart-healthy plant stanols,” says Zied. “And lactose sensitive people may tolerate yogurt better than milk.” Look for plain yogurt fortified with vitamin D, and add your own fruit to control sweetness and calories. Versatile yogurt can also be used in entree and bakery recipes, in dips for veggies, etc. Don’t like yogurt? Skim milk is another super dairy food that has only 83 calories per cup and is easy to slip into coffee to help you get one of the recommended three servings of dairy each day. “Dairy foods contain practically every nutrient you need for total nutrition — and in just the right balance,” says bone health expert, Robert Heaney, MD. “No other food group in the diet is as complete or as economical.”
  2. Eggs make the list because they are nutritious, versatile, economical, and a great way to fill up on quality protein. “Studies show if you eat eggs at breakfast, you may eat fewer calories during the day and lose weight without significantly affecting cholesterol levels,” says Elizabeth Ward, MS, RD, author of The Pocket Idiot’s Guide to the New Food Pyramids. Eggs also contain 12 vitamins and minerals, including choline, which is good for brain development and memory. Enjoy them at any meal or hard-cooked as a portable snack.
  3. Nuts have gotten a bad rap because of their high fat content. But their protein, heart-healthy fats, high fiber, and antioxidant content earn them a place on the top 10 list. The key to enjoying nuts, experts say, is portion control. “All nuts are healthful in small doses, and studies show they can help lower cholesterol levels and promote weight loss,” says Today Show nutritionist Joy Bauer, MS, RD. “I like pistachio nuts because they also contain plant sterols and it takes longer to crack the shell and eat them, making it easier to control the portion. Whether you prefer pistachios, almonds, peanuts, walnuts, or pecans, an ounce a day of nuts help fill you up. Nuts add texture and flavor to salads, side dishes, baked goods, cereals, and entrees. They taste great alone, too. Zied recommends putting together your own “100-calorie packs” of nuts for easy and portable snacks.
  4. Kiwis are among the most nutritionally dense fruits, full of antioxidants, says Ward. “One large kiwi supplies your daily requirement for vitamin C,” says Ward. “It is also a good source of potassium, fiber, and a decent source of vitamin A and vitamin E, which is one of the missing nutrients, and kiwi is one of the only fruits that provides it.” The sweet taste and colorful appearance of kiwis makes it easy to slice in half, scoop out with a spoon and enjoy alone, or slice it into desserts, salads, or side dishes. Kiwifruit can also have a mild laxative effect due to their high fiber content.
  5. Quinoa is now readily available in many supermarkets and is one of the best whole grains you can eat, according to Zied. “It is an ancient grain, easy to make, interesting, high in protein (8 grams in 1 cup cooked), fiber (5 grams per cup) and a naturally good source of iron,” she says. Quinoa (pronounced keen-wa) also has plenty of zinc, vitamin E, and selenium to help control your weight and lower your risk for heart disease and diabetes, she says. Quinoa is as easy to prepare as rice and can be eaten alone or mixed with vegetables, nuts, or lean protein for a whole-grain medley. Try to make at least half your daily grain servings whole grains. In addition to quinoa, try barley, oats, buckwheat, whole wheat, wild rice, and millet.
  6. Beans, beans, good for your heart — really! Beans are loaded with insoluble fiber, which helps lower cholesterol, as well as soluble fiber, which fills you up and helps rid your body of waste. They’re also a good, low-fat source of protein, carbohydrates, magnesium, and potassium. Bauer favors edamame (whole soybeans) because they also contain heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids. Beans can easily substitute for meat or poultry as the centerpiece of a meal, says Bauer, but they also work as a side dish, or tossed into soups, stews, or egg dishes. The U.S. Dietary Guidelines recommend 3 cups weekly.
  7. Salmon is a super food because of its omega-3 fatty acid content. Studies show that omega-3 fatty acids help protect heart health. That’s why the American Heart Association recommends eating fatty fish like salmon twice weekly. Salmon is low in calories (200 for 3 ounces) has lots of protein, is a good source of iron, and is very low in saturated fat. You can simply grill or bake it, top it with salsas or other low-fat sauces, or serve it on top of salad greens. If you don’t like salmon, Lichtenstein recommends eating other kinds of fish, like canned tuna. And what about the mercury content? (Mercury is known to accumulate in fish.) “The benefits of eating salmon or other fatty fish twice weekly far outweigh any risks, but if you are concerned, check with your doctor,” says Zied.
  8. Broccoli is one of America’s favorite vegetables because it tastes good and is available all year long. It’s a rich source of vitamin A, vitamin C, and bone-building vitamin K, and has plenty of fiber to fill you up and help control your weight. “Some people think beta-carotene (vitamin A) is only found in orange and yellow vegetables, but broccoli is an excellent source,” says Ward. You can eat broccoli raw, lightly steamed, stir-fried, roasted, or grilled. Eat it as a side dish, or toss into grains, egg dishes, soups, and salads.
  9. Sweet potatoes are a delicious member of the dark orange vegetable family, which lead the pack in vitamin A content. Substitute a baked sweet potato (also loaded with vitamin C, calcium, and potassium) for a baked white potato. And before you add butter or sugar, taste the sweetness that develops when a sweet potato is cooked — and think of all the calories you can save over that loaded baked potato. “If we eat more foods like sweet potatoes that are rich sources of potassium, and fewer high-sodium foods, we can blunt the effect of sodium on blood pressure and reduce bone loss,” says Zied. Other dark orange vegetable standouts include pumpkin, carrots, butternut squash, and orange bell peppers.
  10. Berries pack an incredible amount of nutritional goodness into a small package. They’re loaded with antioxidants, phytonutrients, low in calories, and high in water and fiber to help control blood sugar and keep you full longer. And their flavors satisfy sweets cravings for a fraction of the calories in baked goods. Blueberries lead the pack because they are among the best source of antioxidants and are widely available. Cranberries are also widely available fresh, frozen, or dried. All can add flavor and nutrition to numerous dishes, from salads and cereals to baked goods and yogurt.
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Apr 29

When my oldest was little, my husband took her shopping for a gift for me. She walked in the door beaming with pride and said, “We got you a clock but we’re not telling because it’s a surprise!” My husband said he talked to her the entire ride home about how to keep a secret, but I guess she missed the point.

Below are some gift ideas for even the hardest women to shop for in your life. (If you see something you like for yourself, pass it on to your husband or kids as a subtle hint.)

Flowers. A traditional gift that is fail-proof and classic. Check out these great deals from FTD that are guaranteed to last 7 days. This is a great way to spoil a long-distance mom or surprise her at work. The link is HERE.

Herb Gardens. These make a great, inexpensive gift that keeps on giving. The kids can help plant it and even put their own handwritten ID tags into the soil for a personal touch that any grandma would love.

Entertain Her. For moms that are big readers or movie buffs, you can’t go wrong using this 40 percent off Border’s coupon. Check it out HERE.  

Hip Moms. Old Navy is doing a storewide sale – everything is 30 percent off. Buy mom a new cover-up for the pool or a cute sundress.

Paint Her A Perfect Picture. Not an artist? Not a problem. Canvas People are offering their 8 x 10 photo conversion to canvas for FREE. You supply a photo and just pay the $14.99 in shipping. Check it out HERE.

A Trip to The Spa. A pedicure or a manicure is a great way to kick off spring. It’s also a self-indulgent treat for a hard-working mom who is always on the go.

Got Gadgets (And a Big Budget)? If  you have a high-tech momma on your list then you should consider splurging on a new digital camera, a smart phone, an iPad or Kindle, or a Blu-ray player.

Give Service. I love to children find ways to serve me –my making my bed, rubbing my shoulders, or by hosting a talent show or skit. They always come up with ways to make me feel appreciated.

From Scratch. My kids have also spoiled me with hand-drawn artwork for my office, homemade jewelry, and meals made from scratch on Mother’s Day. They put their whole heart and soul into making the day special for me and it’s wonderful to see that some of my hard work has actually sunk in. There’s no better gift than to see that your children are happy to sincerely give back to you.

Question: What do you want for Mother’s Day this year?

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Apr 28

 

I’m partial to BNR because it was my first “real” job. At the end of each shift they let you take home two scoops of your favorite flavor. Who doesn’t love a job where you get paid in icecream?

Baskin Robbins will be having their 31¢ scoop tonight  –  tonight from 5pm – 10pm! 2.5-oz scoops are 31 cents + tax. There is a limit of 3 scoops per person.

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Apr 26

 

My youngest is really into giving kisses. Unfortunately, she’s discovered “romantic” kissing – thank you endless Disney flicks – and tries to share her love with a little more generosity than what is typically appreciated.

Like any normal, neurotic, parent I fret about her teenage years. How will we ever keep the boys away? My husband will have to dress like a redneck and carry a gun. Or maybe he’ll issue lie detector tests like the father in “Meet the Parents.” Either way, I’m sure he’ll be plenty scary, but what would be my role in scaring off all future suitors?

A flood of memories suddenly came to mind as I watched the little kisser shriek as she chased her terrified older sisters with threats of “juicy kisses.” Those lips have already had quite a ride in just four short years. I began concocting my plan that I decided could include my older girls as well. I would share gross-out moments in a special scrapbook entitled, “Do you know where those lips have been?” that only comes out right before one of them leaves on a date. 

The possibilities are endless but I share here a few lovely moments I could include that would scare off any prom date.

1.       My husband and I were in the kitchen making dinner and catching up on our day, when all of a sudden my mommy-radar heard an odd noise coming from the bathroom. I heard the sound of thirsty guzzling. That’s odd, I thought, as I gazed across the hallway from the kitchen to the powder room. My two-year-old (at the time) was in plain view with a cup in her hand. I asked her what she was doing and she frankly replied. “I was thirsty so I got dink (drink).” I knew she wasn’t tall enough to turn the faucet on, so I asked in horror because I was pretty sure I knew the answer, “Where did you get a drink from?” Her answer, “The toilet.” Needless to say, my appetite was ruined.

2.       When we moved into our newly constructed home, our daughter was only in the crawling stage. As a result, everything she saw went directly into her mouth. And she was fast. I was constantly pulling things out of her grasp in exchange for acceptable chew toys. We had what my husband called “a minor mouse problem” when we moved into our home. (Later he confessed that is was more like a major problem. This is why I can no longer view movies like “Ratatouille” or “Stuart Little.” I have a serious rodent issue.) As I was unpacking the kitchen my daughter grabbed a sticky, glue mouse trap and put it to her face. The 3 x 5 glue trap was stuck to her face and both of hands. An hour later and after numerous calls to poison control, pest control, the doctor’s office, and my husband, the glue trap was removed, the mice were all gone, and luckily no damage was done. (Glue traps are non-toxic. Phew!)

3.       On a trip to Sea World, one of my daughters became obsessed with the starfish in the tidepool area. One of the attendants said she could pick it up and look at it. Like any good mother, I took a few steps back from toddler, so I could snap a shot of this precious moment. My daughter was carefully looking over the red crustacean when suddenly her mouth opened wide and she proceeded to insert the starfish into her mouth. I hopped up out of my squatted photographer position just in time to swoop in to save that poor starfish’s life. It’s proof you never know quite what your child is thinking. While I thought my sweet daughter was considering her life as a future oceanographer apparently, she was actually thinking about lunch.

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Apr 22

I was on the hunt this week for a new set of sheets for my bed. I’ve discovered in recent years that threat count can make a real difference in how luxurious and relaxing your bed feels. In my own Princess and the Pea blindness I never realized that Target has an amazing collection of sheets that are only 250 threat count.

As I was flying past the “cheap” sheets in my local Target out the corner of my eye I saw the phrase, “Wrinkle Free. No Iron Sheets,” on the label. Not that I would iron my sheets. I don’t iron. I gave it up during my third trimester of my second pregnancy. I felt like I was going to melt like the Wicked Witch of West and I could barely reach the ironing board over my giant-sized belly. But the idea of having the look of non-wrinkled sheets stopped me dead in my tracks. I couldn’t resist running my fingers over the opening in the front of the package.

Ooh…the combination was too powerful to resist and the price tag sealed the deal. An entire sheet set for a California King set me back less than $40! As another added bonus, they look great after being laundered and they are a little bit oversized so don’t have to contort yourself or your mattress to get them on or keep them on.

I highly recommend them. Check them out HERE.

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Apr 20

I’m a huge DQ Blizzard Fan. It’s a weakness I try not to indulge in too often, but this sweet deal might make it too hard to resist. In celebration of the 25th Anniversary of the Blizzard they’re offering Buy One Blizzard Get One for 25 cents until April 25.

Also, don’t forget this is the week get into National Parks for FREE. Check out the link HERE.

Apr 20

I really hate buying toilet paper. It really is throwing money down the toilet. I’m actually a toilet paper snob. I have a thing about buying the best, softest brand. Who doesn’t like pillows of softness, quilted tissue, and double-layers? C’mon—you’re lying if you say you can’t tell a difference between the types of toilet paper. If the toilet paper companies don’t hook you with all of the “pillow” talk in their commercials then surely they get you with images of cute puppies. What puppies have to do with toilet paper is beyond me, but I’m sold on buying name brands. 

Unfortunately, buying name brands also means I’m shelling out the big bucks for something that is used once and is literally flushed down the toilet. (Thank goodness it can’t be recycled.) Have you ever tried to comparison shop the different brands of toilet paper? As I once stood amongst the sea of hygiene tissue in the grocery store and tried to compare costs, I ended up having more questions than answers.

Is it really cheaper to use the least expensive brands if you end up using more toilet paper anyways? How do you factor in the kid cost? They waste toilet paper like it grows on trees. (Oh wait, it does. But it’s still not cool to waste it.) Maybe I should buy the good stuff for my bathroom and buy the cheap-o packages for the kids’ bathroom.

I’ve also noticed that these rolls of goodness seem no never really go on sale. Sure, toilet paper might run 50 cents cheaper than it did the week before, or you can find a 25-cents-off coupon, but really there’s no way to cut costs on toilet paper – an essential for all families. It’s unavoidable. They should add it to the list: death, taxes, and toilet paper.

And the brands try to trick you with the numbers too. There’s square feet and number of squares. And there’s one-ply and two-ply. How on earth can anyone figure out this confusing mess?

(Sidenote: I’m the lamest person on the planet for admitting to all of this, but I know I’m not alone in the confusion. When did toilet paper get complicated? Oh, I remember. The day I had three potty-trained daughters. We consume far more toilet paper than the average household, I’m sure. Since I can’t seem to reduce our usage of the stuff, I figure I might be able to save on costs. Hence my crazy thoughts on TP.)

So, I called one of my smartest friends who loves me despite my absurd questions and I asked her to help me figure out which toilet paper is really the cheapest. Here’s the chart with her results.

Store Brand Price # Rolls per Package # Sheets per Roll # Sheets per Package Price per Roll Price per Sheet
Costco Charmin $18.99 30 250 7500 63.3 cents 0.253 cents
Costco Charmin with $2 Costco Coupon $16.99 30 250 7500 56.6 cents 0.227 cents
Costco Kirkland $17.99 36 425 15300 49.9 cents 0.118 cents
Big Lots Charmin $15.50 30 200 6000 51.7 cents 0.258 cents
Big Lots Big Lots $5.00 12 300 3600 41.7 cents 0.139 cents
Vons Charmin $15.99 24 200 4800 66.6 cents 0. 333 cents
Vons Charmin on Sale $5.99 12 176 2112 50.0 cents 0.284 cents
Vons Charmin on Sale with Coupon $5.49 12 176 2112 45.8 cents 0.260 cents
Vons Safeway (One Ply) $7.99 12 1000 12000 66.6 cents 0.067 cents
Vons Safeway Softy $5.99 12 300 3600 49.9 cents .166 cents
Vons Safeway Softy with Vons Coupon $4.99 12 300 3600 41.6 cents .139 cents


 

Things to Note:

  • The Costco Kirkland Brand comes in the largest size package, if you are going for quantity
  • The Big Lots Brand and the Safeway Softy are tied for the smallest package, so you would have to buy more packages
  • The cheapest per roll is the Safeway Softy, followed closely by the Big Lots brand
  • The most expensive per roll was a tie between the Vons Charmin (at regular price) and the Vons Safeway
  • The Charmin brand was cheapest per sheet at Costco
  • The Charmin brand was most expensive per sheet at Vons
  • With a Costco coupon you save 6 ½ cents per roll on the Charmin
  • The most expensive per sheet was the Vons Charmin at regular price
  • The cheapest toilet paper per sheet was the Safeway Brand, however it is the only brand that is one-ply
  • The second cheapest toilet paper per sheet was the Costco Kirkland brand
  • All prices were taken the same weekend

 

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Apr 19

There’s nothing cuter than a litter of new puppies. You watch them play and sleep and you snuggle with them and pet them. But it can be nearly impossible to pick one out of the bunch. Experts advise doing one easy test to know which puppy has the best personality: you simply put the puppy on his back and hold him down gently for a few seconds – enough to give resistance but not too much to hurt the pup. How he responds – either by lying passively or by wiggling and worming out of your grasp — will tell you a lot about the kind of pet you’re welcoming into your family. Most people are looking for a pup that’s somewhere in the middle.

I think the same could be said about newborns. While I’m not suggesting holding a newborn down to see what he or she would do, I can say that the first 24 hours of a newborn’s new life is a foreshadowing of any dominant personality traits. I can see now with years of perspective the early signs of the strong character traits each of my three daughters possessed in those first hours of life.

When my oldest was born she greeted us with the typical signs of healthy life – lots of screaming and crying – but her crying ended quickly. She was a content child and snuggled up into her little burrito with her eyes closed and as happy as a clam to sleep off the trauma of childbirth. I, on the other hand, couldn’t get enough of her. I repeatedly unwrapped her blanket to look at her crinkly ears that she inherited from her grandpa and her full lips she stole from my DNA. She stretched and fussed each time I’d examine her just as she acts today when I try to fuss over her. She’s content just the way she is. These days that means tucked away into a corner of the house, close to all the action, but snuggled up under a blanket (just like in those first few hours of life). Now, however, she snuggles with a book in hand.

When my second daughter arrived, just 361 days after No. 1, I expected everything to be about the same. After all, the date on the calendar was almost the same, my swollen toes looked identical to the Vienna sausages I had carted around the year before, and my husband had the same concerned but calm look on his face.

So, I was blindsided when daughter No. 2 came out. First of all, we didn’t know she’d be a girl (the strong-willed fetus only showed us her backside in every ultrasound.) We also didn’t know a kid so small could have such a big set of lungs. I’m not sure I’d ever heard a child scream like that – ever. She was not as happy to see us as we were to see her. She screamed and screamed and then screamed a whole bunch more. The doctors swore up and down that she was perfectly healthy and that some kids are just more fiery than others. Hmm….fiery? What does that mean? I thought. That sounds like code for lots of sleepless nights.

As we lay down to sleep that night in the hospital, my 12-hour-old, 6-pound daughter could not be consoled. Everything I tried –and I thought I knew all the tricks – didn’t seem to work on her. She was only happy when I was holding her. The problem was, I’d been awake for over 24 hours – giving birth and all – and I was a wee bit tired from the day’s events. So, I did what every experienced mom would do (and at the risk of being lectured by a nurse): I set her down in bed beside me. She nestled up against me, let out a big sigh of relief, and then fell asleep in 1.2 seconds (which is exactly how long it takes her Dad to fall asleep each night, actually).

A few nights ago I had a flashback to our first night together. We were away from home and No. 2 was having a hard time falling asleep. She tried every excuse in the book to explain why she was still wide-eyed and bushy-tailed long after her sisters had zonked out. She all but threw a toddler tantrum – even though she’s well beyond the toddler years – before I allowed her to climb into bed with me. As you can guess, 1.2 seconds after she pulled the covers up to her chin, she was out cold, just like that first night over 8 years earlier.

Last, but not least, my third daughter arrived after years of heartache, medical trauma, months of morning sickness, and even more months of pre-term labor and bouts of bedrest. Needless to say, we were all exhaustedly excited for her arrival.

And arrive she did. Right on time. The doctor asked my husband to predict the hour of her birth after we checked into the hospital for the delivery. Even though my labor wasn’t progressing, my husband confidently declared that our daughter would arrive at 11:17 a.m. And that’s precisely – and I mean down to the second precisely – what she did.

Exactly eight minutes earlier (11:09 a.m.) I had sent my doctor off to take care of other patients since I figured I was hours from delivery. I turned to lie on my side where I had a full view of all of the machines tracking my contractions, just as seismograph machines record earthquakes. Suddenly my machine looked like the San Andreas Fault during “The Big One” and I went from the first stage of labor to delivery in less time than it takes cheese to melt on the top of a pizza.

As a mother of two girls already – with very different personalities – I couldn’t imagine how on earth I could have another daughter (this time I knew she’d be a girl) that could still add yet another female dynamic to our home. But there she was– all 7-plus pounds of full lips and a lively personality.  She took one look at me, calmed herself, and then knowingly reached up to grab my index finger. I think we were both relieved to no longer share a body, but to instead share life together but in separate bodies. She never misses a beat but still beats to her own drummer, just like her arrival nearly five years ago.

It never fails to amaze me how distinct and different each of my daughters is in looks and personality. Just like a litter of pups all from the same parents, but all so different. I guess my daughters’ births are proof that parenting really isn’t a one-size fits-all approach; rather, each child needs her own layers of compassion and direction. Each of my daughters’ births tells the first chapter of the story of who they are and what they will become. They are just as individualized today as they were the day they were born.

 

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Apr 16

As a kid I was terrified to eat beans. I can still hear my brother singing quietly into my ear at the dinner table, “Beans, beans, the musical fruit.”

Needless to say, as an adult I’ve learned that the gas from beans won’t kill you, and beans are actually a great source of fiber and protein. They’re also super cheap and you can soak them and freeze them or keep cans in your pantry for an easy add-in to many recipes. As an added bonus, my kids love to eat them and they’ve probably never heard that silly schoolyard song about flatuance.

Not sure what to do with beans? Here are 5 ideas you can try today.

1.       Make minestrone soup. A great, easy, low-calorie meal made from vegetable broth, veggies and several types of beans (butter, kidney, cannellini, garbanzo, etc.)

2.       Cook up some chili. A wide variety of beans (similar to the minestrone mix) can be used in most chili recipes. You can opt to keep it vegetarian or add in some meat for added flavor. Check out this recipe HERE.

3.       Go south of the border. Mix some pinto or black beans into your next Mexican dish for added fiber and protein. You’ll save your budget and your waistline when you serve up red beans and rice, or substitute a can of beans for a pound of meat in your next round of tacos.

4.       Layer beans in a casserole. Whether you’re serving a white cream lasagna (with white beans, ricotta cheese and alfredo sauce) or a Mexican casserole (with tortillas, black and pinto beans, salsa, and cheese) your family will never have a chance to complain about the beans you’ve snuck in.

5.       Dip into beans. I love to take a can of pinto beans (or better yet a cup or two of freshly cooked beans) and blend them in my Kitchen-Aid. Add salt, salsa, and cheese. Serve warm with chips, taquitos or carrots. It’s makes a great appetizer or a healthy, afterschool snack (if you go for the carrots).

6.       Make a cold bean salad. Need an easy, healthy side dish? You can pair several varieties of beans with vegetables, top with olive oil and seasoning, or salad dressing. For example, whisk together olive oil with taco seasoning, toss in a cup of black beans with an equal amount of pinto. Garnish with cilantro, a tablespoon or two of fresh salsa, a little lime juice, and some salt.

 What else you should know:

·         Canned beans require no soaking and can be warmed up or served cold.

·         Dried beans should be soaked overnight. Be sure to cover them with lots of water because they’ll double or triple in volume as they absorb the water.

·         Dried beans should be cooked at a low temperature for a long period of time to reach their peak palatability.

·         Dry beans that have been cooked are good for about five days in the fridge. Or they can be frozen and stored for up to six months.

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Apr 15

This week’s guest post comes from Amanda, one of my Wisconsin readers. I came across her blog, Tales From The Crib, and her list of “100 Things” caught my attention. Being the list-aholic that I am, I had to check it out, and now I’m glad she’s agreed to share this courageous concept with all of you. Whether we scribble our “100 Things” down in a notebook, share it on our blog or Facebook page, or just keep it in the back of our minds we all have our own list of “100”somewhere.

 

Lists. We’ve all got them in some form. Playlists. Guest lists. Checklists. If you’re one of those highly organized people, I’m guessing the “To-Do List” is right up there at the top.

Now, I’m probably just like a million other people out there running around from one errand, responsibility, event, etc. to another, but sooner or later, I find myself going crazy thinking about all the things I need to do. Enter the LIST. As soon as I can get my hands on a piece of paper, I write down whatever it is that I’m thinking about. We’re out of milk. Write it down so I’ll remember next time I go to the store. It’s sort of like my therapy. I need to schedule the dog’s vet appointment. Write it on the day’s to-do list. Once it is clearly written down on that little piece of paper, I can think straight again. I have gained focus and established a plan of attack to accomplish all those things milling about in my head.

Years ago, I used to have all the time in the world to take care of those items on my to-do list. But now having “grown-up” responsibilities (job, house, marriage, dog, and an almost two-year old daughter), I’m hard-pressed to find even a spare moment to take care of all those things that creep up on me. Taking a cue from the infamous “Bucket List” and the “101 Things in 1001 days“, I made my own version of a list, calling it my “100 Things“ list. Trying to be practical (and realistic), I tailored my list to suit my needs. You won’t see “Climb Mt. Everest before I’m 40” on my list. No, my list is more of a ”Put my daughter’s first-year pictures in an album (hopefully before I’m 40)” kind of list.

For me, it wasn’t enough to simply compose a list. I needed some kind of accountability, a challenge. So I posted it on my blog. Now, some stuff is rather personal (weight-loss goals, financial stuff), but I was trying to keep it real and by airing some of my dirty laundry, I’m more motivated to accomplish those things and check them off.

The key for me was to add some fun stuff to my list and a few things that I knew I could accomplish rather easily. Crossing those first few things off the list really got me pumped to see what else I could do. Since the whole point of making this list was to ease the burden of always thinking about what needs to be done, I put some demanding things on there, things I knew weren’t going to come easily (like clean out the basement). Somehow, the simple act of adding it to my list did wonders for my mental state. No longer did I sit and ruminate about it. That chore, task or duty was out of my head and on paper and I was eventually going to tackle it.

I’ve checked off about 60% of my list to date. I’m not in any race to finish, but hoping to accomplish my goal of completing the list by September 2010 (a year from when I started it). Who knows, once I tackle these 100 things, I may have some spare time to add “Climb Mt. Everest” to my next list … or maybe not.

Read Amanda’s “100 Things” list and other gems on her blog – Tales From the Crib.

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